My personal theory, however, and one I believe is backed up by research, is that the leading cause of male sexual dysfunction is the ubiquity of internet pornography. Recent neurophysiological studies have shed some fascinating light on the effects of pornography on the brain, specifically the reward pathways. Habitual users of porn have very similar brain chemistry to that of habitual drug users. Just as drug users develop a tolerance to their drug and have to use increasingly larger doses to get the same effect, so also habitual porn users have to view increasingly extreme forms of imagery to get off. It used to be that a man might see a handful of women naked in his entire life. Now a teenage boy can see 30 naked women in as many seconds. Eventually his brain gets so inured to the constant spikes of dopamine and other reward chemicals that his penis literally goes numb. It's not that there is anything physically wrong with his anatomy; it's just that his brain no longer can respond sufficiently to stimuli.

Originally Posted by: Nonstopdrivel 

And not only the amount, but also the things you can find. I mean, they've got just about every niche and preference covered. I can imagine that sex can become "just sex" when you see a guy and two women throwing feces at eachother, if that's what you're into.

Originally Posted by: Rockmolder 

How did you know that's what I'm into? 🤔

But yeah, a bunch of truths on here. We get numb from over-stimulation and magazine perfections make an unrealistic view of women should look like.

With you young ones though, I'm still convinced videogames are the biggest culprit. Your generation would rather play videogames than make sweet love to a good woman. [palm] Or maybe not exactly your generation but that is how my son and his friends are. 😣 I don't know if you're past that age or not.

I'm not asking to slam you, just want to know where the cut off is. Are your friends more interested in videogames than girls? Is it an age thing? Or is it an American thing?

Originally Posted by: zombieslayer 

sex talk...weeeeeeee!!! oops, momentary immature reaction there.

anyway, my opinion is that we are a completely over-sexed society. nothing is left to the imagination. you have a fantasy? look thru any magazine & you'll probably find a picture of it or look on the internet & you can see a movie about it. everywhere you go, women have their tata's hangin out, skin tight clothes, & most look like they should be on the damn corner. you can't tell a 14 year old from a 25 year old anymore.

me? i'm a conservative dresser. i love my low rise levi's (tight but not too tight), but on top, i cover up. i have big boobs (yes, they're real) & guess what? you can tell they're big even when i'm wearing a comfy sweatshirt. why on earth would i feel the need to have them bulging out of a tight sweater? i just don't get it. also, my ass isn't hanging out the back either. that is disgusting! especially 300 lb women wearing thongs with their buttcracks showing - ewwww!

guess it makes those times i do dress a little sexy all the more exciting for my husband.
then again, he thinks the best place for lingerie is on the floor & thinks it's sexy when i put on one of his dress shirts.

Originally Posted by: 4PackGirl